Officers Quarters Pointing Fingers

In an online environment where people rarely, if ever, come to meet face-to-face, there is quite easy for misunderstandings to happen. Ninety percent of the time, these miscommunications result from an assumption about a player's intentions based on what they have said or done. In these situations who is at fault the person who didn't communicate their intentions or communication clear, or the one who jumped to conclusions? In my opinion, both have a part to blame However, pointing fingers at the wrong person gets us nowhere. This week's eMail is good example.

I just got kicked out of a guild and I have I have a question. I came across an amazing recipe in the guild recipe tab and I was able to learn it. They mistakenly put it in the wrong tab and instead of the private tab they put it in the open guild tab. I apparently wasn't supposed to have it, and was kicked out. Now I am being contacted by an organization that is harassing me and demanding I replace the pattern. I'd like to do that but it won't get me back into the guild, but it might hurt my chances of getting into a different guild. What should i do and is it really my fault?

There is a possibility of a fault on three areas. The first is the person who put the item in the bank but put it in the wrong tab. This made the recipe accessible to everyone. The second is the one who took the item. The third person is the one who set up the bank's guidelines. wow servers all over

Communication could have avoided all these problems. The person who made the deposit on the item could have checked with an officer regarding which tab to put it in. Before withdrawing the item and learning the recipe, the person who took it may have spoken to an agent. And the officer who set up the bank guidelines may not have been clear about what should be done or what is acceptable to do without asking.

As officers, it's crucial to recognize that these lapses in communication do not solely rest with the individuals in every instance. More often than not we are also responsible to a greater or lesser extent. To guild members who are blamed for the incident, kicking and demanding restitution, I will say : Take the time to look at what you could do to prevent this from happening.

You treat this former member like an ninja. Maybe he is. I'm only hearing his side of the story (with very little specifics) therefore it's difficult to discern whether he was simply looking to cash out something he could use or hoping to profit from the resources of the guild. But the officers involved might have drawn a grim conclusion about what could have been a minor mistake.

The sender of the email said that your reputation on the server has been damaged. You will need to amend your behavior with your guild if you want to restore your good reputation. I suggest that you first speak with the leader of your guild. Don't point fingers at others involved. That's only going to cause more tension.

Instead, express your regrets and explain your side. Be calm and rational at all times. I've dealt with this issue numerous times and am more likely to help those who are able to make their case without becoming too emotional. EXTREME MINING I have found that those who resort to anger or tears to justify their mistakes are more likely to lie more than those who are honest about the facts.

I understand the feelings of being angry in situations of conflict. After a couple of days, I'm less interested in your feelings and more in the truth. "QQ" isn't an extremely popular character in Warcraft. If you're skeptical take a few minutes to visit the official forums!

If the guild leader refuses to accept your version of events, you will have to offer something in exchange for the recipe in order to restore reputation. If the raid item is damaged, it could be difficult to replace it. If you don't make the right decision to them they could block you from finding another home.

The next time, if you have any doubt at all be sure to ask questions before taking. This rule applies to all loot. Officers must be as precise as you can with your loot policies and rules. Communication is key in this regard.